music, music, music. it makes me feel like im in a movie or tv show
scented candles, perfumes, soap, lotion. anything that smells flowery, fruity and/or soft makes me feel super fancy
making. drawings, poems, food, whatever it is. the important thing for me here is that i feel good doing things and have fun
allowing myself to enjoy things. i don’t have to save the fancy delicious tea for extra celebrations to make it special or something, drinking it while reading or watching a movie is good, and maybe it doesn’t have to be fancy tea, maybe it can just be one that i like and that will not stop me from enjoying it
learning new things. anything really, maybe a recipe or something historic or chords for guitar or words in a new language. i just like to know things.
making something of my own, like a little distinctive mark. for example: my lipstick, how i drink my coffee, the way i sing or talk, etc.
seeing the beauty in little things. the way sunlight enters through my window, the way my pets like to bask in the sun, the smile of a loved one, the page of a book or magazine. just taking a moment to go “oh wow this looks nice”
in general i just like to try to have fun and feel pleasant and happy with myself